Have you ever met someone who wanted something but didn’t know exactly what it was? I met a young lady last week, she said that she was looking for a job; I asked her what type of job she wanted, she looked at me and said, “Well, that’s the problem, I really don’t know”. If you’re not sure of what you want you would get mixed results. It’s like setting out on a journey to somewhere; you’ll never know when you have arrived. You need to be absolutely sure of what you want. If you are in a relationship, it’s either you want it to thrive or you want it to die, either way you have to be sure.
Being clear about what you want enables you paint a good picture. You think about it, you visualize it. And as you visualize it fuels you to act. If you’re in a job you hate, you can choose to stay there and keep hating the job, change your attitude about the job, or quit the job. You have to decide for yourself what it is that you want. Don’t be like a leaf blown by the wind and accept whatever lot you find. If you want to be successful, you have to really want it. When you want to be successful as badly as you want to breathe, then you’ll be successful.
Do not be on the fence when it involves decisions that can change your life. If you’re only kinda sure, then you’ll only kinda get the right thing. When you’re sure about what you want, believe that you already have it, even when you don’t see it, believe still.
Whatever you want in life, be sure. Be positive about it. Ask for it. And you will get it.
“But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubt is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind, for let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord”… James 1:6-7